Butt plugs can play a great part in a full session with a Mistress as a means of stretching you for a full strap-on f***ing or part of a whole miriad of tortures being inflicted on your body. Scarlett Thorne is particularly fond of shoving electric butt plugs up into Her slaves which certainly gives you a buzz and the old leap and yelp as the dial gets turned up and down.
However, the great thing about a butt plug, as mentioned in previous posts, is that it is something you can take out of the dungeon to yourself or even in a none BDSM context if you just have an enjoyment of feeling that you are getting f***ed, although trust me it is not nearly the same as the real thing.
i first experienced self buggeration - i think that's probably the term - with a butt plug as "homework" set by Mistress Scarlett Thorne as part of my whore training. Doing the odd session every month was not good enough to stretch me properly and the body does readjust back over time. As anybody who has followed my butt plug adventures on Twitter will know i have had great fun despite the trials and tribulations i outlined in my last Butt Plu Epic post.
But to do it properly, get the enjoyment, not injure yourself and not end up being publicly embarrassed you need to do it right and in the right place. For this reason part 3 deals with how to put a butt plug up your own arse, after all Mistress should have to be constantly bothered by you, She should feel She can just instruct you to do it.
1. Get your equipment.
Necessary items: Butt plug, condoms, lube
Useful extras: Poppers, a thong and a pair of large panties
Make sure the butt plug is the right size. Initially you will probably need advice and a Mistress can advise you on this, but over time you will know. In my case Scarlett Thorne lent me a butt plug but normally you would need to go to a sex, gay or tranny shop or get one off the internet. In terms of size it must be big enough to stretch you and feel invasive buty small enough to fit in without causing injury.
Condoms are easily picked up from pharmacists and are necessary for health and cleanliness reasons. You can also get lubricant from pharmacists, personally i use the one supplied by Boots which is reasonably priced and effective.
Poppers can be got from gay and tranny bars, clubs and shops as well sex shops. They are Alkyl Nitrates which come in small bottles and are sniffed to enhance sexual feeling, but more importantly to relax your anal muscles. With these you can usually go for a bigger size of butt plug.
Warning: Handle with care. Do not drop the liquid on your skin or clothes because it will burn and scar you.
Thong and panties can be picked up from clothes stores obviosly. They are useful for keeping a butt plug in.
2. Find an appropriate location
Unless you live alone or have a partner who shares your interests do not do it at home. Instead this is something that can easily be done at work if you are careful, especially office based jobs.
i always do the operation as such in a cubicle in one of the quieter toilets.
i have also used a butt plug in a hotel room when i've been away and i've used it on a train which was a particularly enjoyable experience. Again on the train i stuck the BP my arse in a toilet cublicle, which was quite challenging but worth it.
3. Preparation
So you are in a quiet place, probably a toilet, you have all the necessary equipment and a re ready to go.
*Strip down below the waste, take off your shoes, trousers (if you're in normal vanilla clothes) and underwear.
*If you have poppers take them now. Sniff it very hard two or three times, at least once in each nostrel but no more. You may need to sniff later but this stuff does kill your brain cells so don't over use. Be careful not to spill any liquid, put the lid back on tightly and then place the bottle in a safe place. Waiti a minute for the effect to begin.
*Put a condom on the butt plug stretching it down so it fully covers the base. If you intend to have it there for more than an hour then put two condoms on. This is to keep the butt plug clean, protect you from germs. Condoms are after all disposable.
*Spread lube over the butt plug starting from the tip where it should be heaviest. The tip is the after all the first point of contact.
*Spread some lub on your own anus and push it in a bit. Do not over use the lube because it could slip out.
*Stick a finger or two into your anus, move them around as a little bit of early stretching.
4. Insertion
*Spread your legs and bend forward. There is a little debate about this, but i find it helps.
*Start taking deep and regular breaths and try to relax your muscles.
*Push the butt plug in gently.
*If it reaches a point of resistance (it should) pull it out and then push it back in again. Keep doing this while breathing deeply because it will allow you to open up to accept it.
*After a few times of putting it in and pulling out, push the butt plug in all the way and push hard at the end. This may hurt a little.
*Stand still for a few moments to allow the butt plug to settle into place. Keep taking deep breaths.
*Clamp your muscles around the butt plug and make sure it is properly in.
5. Securing the butt plug in place.
*If you have a thong put it on and pull it up as far as possible and it will help hold the butt plug there.
*Then put on the bigger panties, if you have them, which literally act as a safety net.
*Afterward, if you are not in tranny clothes, put on your boxer short sn or other man underwear over the top. Then put on your trousers if you are wearing them.
NB Obviously in many ways it is easier to use a butt plug if you are trannied up in a dress. The thong and panties are not necessary but are advisable especially for those who are new to this sort of thing. A butt plug dropping out at work or in public can be pretty embarrassing.
6. Removing the butt plug
This can be surprisingly difficult, especially after it has been in for a while. Sometimes it is ready to just slip out but actually i often find it more painful to remove. The muscles have often clamped hard around it and are unwilling to let go. You can pull it out and try not to yelp, but here is an easier suggestion.
*Squat slightly or just sit on a toilet.
*Put your hand underneath you and hold on to the base of the butt plug.
*Use your muscles to push as if you were having a shit and pull the butt plug. It should come out quite easily with just a little pain.
*There will almost be shit on the butt plug unless you have had an enema, which is unlikely if you have put it in at work or outside a dungeon. So wipe the shit off with toilet paper and throw it in the toilet.
*Then remove the condoms.
*Wrap the condoms in paper or tissue and throw them away discretely in a bin.
*Put the butt plug in a bag with the other gear and hide it properly in a safe place preferably with a lock. A work locker is ideal.
However, the great thing about a butt plug, as mentioned in previous posts, is that it is something you can take out of the dungeon to yourself or even in a none BDSM context if you just have an enjoyment of feeling that you are getting f***ed, although trust me it is not nearly the same as the real thing.
i first experienced self buggeration - i think that's probably the term - with a butt plug as "homework" set by Mistress Scarlett Thorne as part of my whore training. Doing the odd session every month was not good enough to stretch me properly and the body does readjust back over time. As anybody who has followed my butt plug adventures on Twitter will know i have had great fun despite the trials and tribulations i outlined in my last Butt Plu Epic post.
But to do it properly, get the enjoyment, not injure yourself and not end up being publicly embarrassed you need to do it right and in the right place. For this reason part 3 deals with how to put a butt plug up your own arse, after all Mistress should have to be constantly bothered by you, She should feel She can just instruct you to do it.
1. Get your equipment.
Necessary items: Butt plug, condoms, lube
Useful extras: Poppers, a thong and a pair of large panties
Make sure the butt plug is the right size. Initially you will probably need advice and a Mistress can advise you on this, but over time you will know. In my case Scarlett Thorne lent me a butt plug but normally you would need to go to a sex, gay or tranny shop or get one off the internet. In terms of size it must be big enough to stretch you and feel invasive buty small enough to fit in without causing injury.
Condoms are easily picked up from pharmacists and are necessary for health and cleanliness reasons. You can also get lubricant from pharmacists, personally i use the one supplied by Boots which is reasonably priced and effective.
Poppers can be got from gay and tranny bars, clubs and shops as well sex shops. They are Alkyl Nitrates which come in small bottles and are sniffed to enhance sexual feeling, but more importantly to relax your anal muscles. With these you can usually go for a bigger size of butt plug.
Warning: Handle with care. Do not drop the liquid on your skin or clothes because it will burn and scar you.
Thong and panties can be picked up from clothes stores obviosly. They are useful for keeping a butt plug in.
2. Find an appropriate location
Unless you live alone or have a partner who shares your interests do not do it at home. Instead this is something that can easily be done at work if you are careful, especially office based jobs.
i always do the operation as such in a cubicle in one of the quieter toilets.
i have also used a butt plug in a hotel room when i've been away and i've used it on a train which was a particularly enjoyable experience. Again on the train i stuck the BP my arse in a toilet cublicle, which was quite challenging but worth it.
3. Preparation
So you are in a quiet place, probably a toilet, you have all the necessary equipment and a re ready to go.
*Strip down below the waste, take off your shoes, trousers (if you're in normal vanilla clothes) and underwear.
*If you have poppers take them now. Sniff it very hard two or three times, at least once in each nostrel but no more. You may need to sniff later but this stuff does kill your brain cells so don't over use. Be careful not to spill any liquid, put the lid back on tightly and then place the bottle in a safe place. Waiti a minute for the effect to begin.
*Put a condom on the butt plug stretching it down so it fully covers the base. If you intend to have it there for more than an hour then put two condoms on. This is to keep the butt plug clean, protect you from germs. Condoms are after all disposable.
*Spread lube over the butt plug starting from the tip where it should be heaviest. The tip is the after all the first point of contact.
*Spread some lub on your own anus and push it in a bit. Do not over use the lube because it could slip out.
*Stick a finger or two into your anus, move them around as a little bit of early stretching.
4. Insertion
*Spread your legs and bend forward. There is a little debate about this, but i find it helps.
*Start taking deep and regular breaths and try to relax your muscles.
*Push the butt plug in gently.
*If it reaches a point of resistance (it should) pull it out and then push it back in again. Keep doing this while breathing deeply because it will allow you to open up to accept it.
*After a few times of putting it in and pulling out, push the butt plug in all the way and push hard at the end. This may hurt a little.
*Stand still for a few moments to allow the butt plug to settle into place. Keep taking deep breaths.
*Clamp your muscles around the butt plug and make sure it is properly in.
5. Securing the butt plug in place.
*If you have a thong put it on and pull it up as far as possible and it will help hold the butt plug there.
*Then put on the bigger panties, if you have them, which literally act as a safety net.
*Afterward, if you are not in tranny clothes, put on your boxer short sn or other man underwear over the top. Then put on your trousers if you are wearing them.
NB Obviously in many ways it is easier to use a butt plug if you are trannied up in a dress. The thong and panties are not necessary but are advisable especially for those who are new to this sort of thing. A butt plug dropping out at work or in public can be pretty embarrassing.
6. Removing the butt plug
This can be surprisingly difficult, especially after it has been in for a while. Sometimes it is ready to just slip out but actually i often find it more painful to remove. The muscles have often clamped hard around it and are unwilling to let go. You can pull it out and try not to yelp, but here is an easier suggestion.
*Squat slightly or just sit on a toilet.
*Put your hand underneath you and hold on to the base of the butt plug.
*Use your muscles to push as if you were having a shit and pull the butt plug. It should come out quite easily with just a little pain.
*There will almost be shit on the butt plug unless you have had an enema, which is unlikely if you have put it in at work or outside a dungeon. So wipe the shit off with toilet paper and throw it in the toilet.
*Then remove the condoms.
*Wrap the condoms in paper or tissue and throw them away discretely in a bin.
*Put the butt plug in a bag with the other gear and hide it properly in a safe place preferably with a lock. A work locker is ideal.
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