Wednesday, 13 February 2013

Living by Scarlett Time

For those of you who have had even the briefest contact with the top London Mistress Scarlett Thorne the title of this particular post will be all too familiar to you. Those of us who serve Her in our daily lives or often at least have virtually given up on concepts like ordinary time zones when we enter Mistress Scarlett Thorne's world.

For the uninitiated allow me to explain. Scarlett Time is meaner in its cruelty than the Greenwich meridian, but far more generous in its understanding of length of concepts such as seconds, minutes and hours. However, for those who like to to live life by their watch it is confusing.

Mistress Scarlett Thorne does not wear a watch Her body clock accurately tells Her when the right time is. This often means that sessions appear to be delayed by an hour or two but then go on far longer than the hour booked. i say 'appear' because when the sessions start is the right time because it is Scarlett Time.

It is a mistake to get frustrated over Scarlett Time and slaves who do get upset about it don't last long, while those who learn to live by Scarlett Time enjoy the privileges which go with serving the most beautiful and powerful Dominatrix in London with all the experience She has acquired in a lifetime of dominating men.

But there is a wider point to this blog after some issues raised by one or two subs with me. Scarlett Time is one of the whims of Mistress Scarlett Thorne, it is a sign of Her control of everything around Her and those who come into contact with Her. If you are serious about serving any Domme in sessions or in lifestyle then learning about Her whims and desires is essential for you to be a successful slave, sub and, especially, maid.

If you have any questions about life as a sub or/ and tranny email me at or Tweet me on @DaniTallulah.

Tuesday, 5 February 2013

The truth about forced feminisation

Here's a question for some of you subs out there. When you think of "forced feminisation" do you think of being made to wear something like this?

Utterly hideous, isn't it? i think it is a size 20 bright pink pvc frilly dress. Now i am somebody, as my regular readers know, who spends as much time as i can in a dress etc and frankly i would be completely humiliated wearing something like that.

Now some of my friends may point out that i am not one of those gurls who likes to be a frilly sissy but for me what that dress represents is a false concept of forced feminisation. It plays on the idea that the man should look ridiculous and be totally humiliated when dressed as a woman. It rejects the inner woman within most men and propagates the idea that the sexes don't cross over.

Items like that are produced not to feminise but actually to defeminise to make the so called man feel like less of a woman than he should. It is a cliché stocked by most Dommes in Their dungeons simply to play on what their tribute paying slaves expect not about a true process of subjugation and feminisation.

Now i don't mean to demean those whose fantasy is to wear something like this. i have enjoyed humiliation and i understand the urge to want to be humiliated, but this does not mean it equates to actual feminisation.

There are also some fabulous frilly dresses out there which look so much better than that as worn by my best tranny friend @PrincessTST.

When i fantasised about being feminised before i was lucky enough to meet Mistress Scarlett Thorne it was far more looking something like this that i wanted to look like and wear:

i am sure that some of You will tell me this is just another cliché. They may claim it is the slutty, minimalist version of the hideous frilly monstrosity i showed you earlier. Well it maybe but i would say that it is still a step towards genuine feminisation and an expression of feminine sexuality.

But this is all a distraction. So what then is the truth of forced feminisation?

This is something that i now have a lot of experience in having been "forced" to accept my identity as a woman rather than a man by Scarlett Thorne and watched others follow a similar path at different stages.

What i believe is that all men have the potential to become a woman. After all we all have female physical characteristics, if you doubt that play with your nipples for a moment. To widely different degrees we also are born with a psychological and spiritual woman inside us which with nurturing can become your dominant feature, as it has become with me.

For many in the transsexual community there is no need to force their feminisation. The female identity is so strong and that they are able to embrace it themselves without meeting a Mistress. While my dear friend @maid_felicity is very well known in the BDSM world, he path to becoming a gurl was one which needed know forcing just experimentation.

But for different reasons most men will deny or suppress their female side, even if it is overwhelmingly powerful within them. This was certainly true of me until i went to see Scarlett Thorne almost three years ago. i went to see Mistress Thorne not because i wanted to be a woman but because i wanted to erxperiment in BDSM. As i remember it i had a toilet slave fantasy at the time, which gave me the original name wetslave.

What happened fairly rapidly was a process of forced feminisation, something that Mistress Thorne excells and delights in. i was dressed in that first session and finger f***ed, but from there a long process of replacing what was a man with what is now a woman.

This process involved learning about my female identity, getting new skills such as using make up, changing my body language, getting rid of hair, changing my thought processes and interests, and all sorts of other things. All of this was done through instruction but would never have happened had i not been pushed into it by Scarlett Thorne.

True to say i have adopted some stereotypes. i am a maid for Scarlett Thorne and i work as a whore. However, i have also got to a position where i am happy to go out as a woman and look like a normal woman in the street.

So this i believe is the truth about forced feminisation. It is a skilled process in a Domme/ sub relationship not only about humiliation but about turning what was a man into a woman by developing on the foundations which are naturally there already. It is less about pure humiliation and more about changing your identity and reshaping you. If done properly, as Scarlett Thorne has done with me, it will totally alter you forever.

While i realise most people do not want to or haver the time or opportunity to live the lifestyle i have there is no reason why this cannot be true for forced feminisation in sessions only. If you have had a really good session where you have been dressed and treated like a woman, then you should walk away feeling that you were one for that hour or two.

Anyway here is a picture of me working as a gurl and if you want a session with me do feel free to call 07532425141 or check out my website

And here is a quick snap of me by a friend looking a little more normal trying out a ball gown.

If you have any issues or concerns about being a tranny or sub then email me at or tweet me on @DaniTallulah.