This is a blog Mistress Scarlett Thorne asked me to put together because a successful cover story is essential for living a double life as both a tranny and a BDSM slave.
This is a particularly apt one for me for my recent activity because ast Friday i had to come up with a rather special excuse to allow me to go to Pedestal in London as part of Scarlett Thorne's entourage this week on my most difficult night to get off which is a Friday.
Like with everything i do with Mistress it was worth the risk and in the case of Pedestal - one of the top fetish clubs anywhere - it is something i have wanted to do for a long time. i'm glad i got there, it may be a long time before i have another chance.
As i mentioned in an earlier blog the easiest and most obvious cover story is work but there are others. So i shall divide this post into three parts - work excuses, other excuses and essential preparation.
Work Excuses
Best way to get cover for your second life is through your job. It helps if it is one which flexible, you are not expected to be in the office all the time and preferably involves some travel.
With work there are all sorts of reasons you might be away or late. i'm lucky with my job in that it is varied, largely flexible and takes me to a lot of places. So here's a list of work related excuses i've used:
*Doing a night or weekend shift
*Attending a conference
*On a training course
*Taking a business trip
*Kept late in the office
*Entertaining contacts or clients
*At an awards dinner
*Carrying out extra freelance work
*Been called to head office for a personal review
Excuses to your boss:
It is also worth remembering that you will need to give excuses for not turning up to work. This is much easier if you are in a relatively flexible job.
Ones i have used include:
*i'm ill and can't come in (this can be over used and i've only done it once)
*i have a family matter i have to attend to
*i need to have an appointment with the doctor or at hospital for a condition
*i am seeing my solicitor about a legal matter/ house purchase/ a few other things i'm involved in
*i am owed the day off (my most common one which in my case has no questions asked)
Non-work related excuses:
While work is probably the easiest cover because it takes up so much time in most of our lives, there are other ways of explaining your absence. Unfortunately, i find that most of these are one-off excuses which can be repeated irregularly but not too often.
Here are some suggestions, all of which i've heard at some point:
*Going on a stag do/ hen night (almost had a disaster using that when the BDSM event got cancelled)
*Attending a birthday party or some other form of celebration
*Been offered a free holiday
*Visiting an old friend
*Out for the night with friends (some use this a lot but if your partner is like mine then he or she will be fairly intolerant of that one).
*Doing a charity event
*Off at an event with some club you are a member of
*Away performing or watching a sports event
*At the theatre or a concert
*Visiting somebody in hospital
Prepare your story properly - important tips:
*The top rule is to make CAUTION your watch word.
*Make sure there is a basis of truth to your story so you can talk properly about it.
*Have it clear in your head in case you are questioned.
*You DO NOT want to contradict yourself later.
*Do not give a story which easily unravels ie with one phone call to a friend or family member.
ie do not say you are visiting your mother unless your partner doesn't talk to your mother.
*The people in the story should be people your partner/ work have no contact with.
*Make sure you know the details of the play/ match/ conference or whatever you claim to be at, or at least enough to bullshit through questions.
*Be consistant with your story. Do not tell one person one thing and then another something different if there is a good chance they will talk.
*Make sure your story is believable and not outlanhdish, seemingly a normal thing in your life.
*VERY IMPORTANT: When you leave the house think of yourself as doing the thing you claim to be doing in your story, which means preparing for it.
In other words if your story involves air travel then take your passport. It involves staying in a hotel then take your wash gear and a change of clothes. If necessary buy tickets for planes and trains. Do not leave any room for suspicion.
You may have other ideas for excuses. Please feel free to leave them in the comments section.
My next blog will be in the next day or two and will be on my efforts at stretching with a butt plug with some useful tips.
If you need tranny or sub help or advice email me on trannyagony@live.co.uk or tweet me at @DaniTallulah
This is a particularly apt one for me for my recent activity because ast Friday i had to come up with a rather special excuse to allow me to go to Pedestal in London as part of Scarlett Thorne's entourage this week on my most difficult night to get off which is a Friday.
Like with everything i do with Mistress it was worth the risk and in the case of Pedestal - one of the top fetish clubs anywhere - it is something i have wanted to do for a long time. i'm glad i got there, it may be a long time before i have another chance.
As i mentioned in an earlier blog the easiest and most obvious cover story is work but there are others. So i shall divide this post into three parts - work excuses, other excuses and essential preparation.
Work Excuses
Best way to get cover for your second life is through your job. It helps if it is one which flexible, you are not expected to be in the office all the time and preferably involves some travel.
With work there are all sorts of reasons you might be away or late. i'm lucky with my job in that it is varied, largely flexible and takes me to a lot of places. So here's a list of work related excuses i've used:
*Doing a night or weekend shift
*Attending a conference
*On a training course
*Taking a business trip
*Kept late in the office
*Entertaining contacts or clients
*At an awards dinner
*Carrying out extra freelance work
*Been called to head office for a personal review
Excuses to your boss:
It is also worth remembering that you will need to give excuses for not turning up to work. This is much easier if you are in a relatively flexible job.
Ones i have used include:
*i'm ill and can't come in (this can be over used and i've only done it once)
*i have a family matter i have to attend to
*i need to have an appointment with the doctor or at hospital for a condition
*i am seeing my solicitor about a legal matter/ house purchase/ a few other things i'm involved in
*i am owed the day off (my most common one which in my case has no questions asked)
Non-work related excuses:
While work is probably the easiest cover because it takes up so much time in most of our lives, there are other ways of explaining your absence. Unfortunately, i find that most of these are one-off excuses which can be repeated irregularly but not too often.
Here are some suggestions, all of which i've heard at some point:
*Going on a stag do/ hen night (almost had a disaster using that when the BDSM event got cancelled)
*Attending a birthday party or some other form of celebration
*Been offered a free holiday
*Visiting an old friend
*Out for the night with friends (some use this a lot but if your partner is like mine then he or she will be fairly intolerant of that one).
*Doing a charity event
*Off at an event with some club you are a member of
*Away performing or watching a sports event
*At the theatre or a concert
*Visiting somebody in hospital
Prepare your story properly - important tips:
*The top rule is to make CAUTION your watch word.
*Make sure there is a basis of truth to your story so you can talk properly about it.
*Have it clear in your head in case you are questioned.
*You DO NOT want to contradict yourself later.
*Do not give a story which easily unravels ie with one phone call to a friend or family member.
ie do not say you are visiting your mother unless your partner doesn't talk to your mother.
*The people in the story should be people your partner/ work have no contact with.
*Make sure you know the details of the play/ match/ conference or whatever you claim to be at, or at least enough to bullshit through questions.
*Be consistant with your story. Do not tell one person one thing and then another something different if there is a good chance they will talk.
*Make sure your story is believable and not outlanhdish, seemingly a normal thing in your life.
*VERY IMPORTANT: When you leave the house think of yourself as doing the thing you claim to be doing in your story, which means preparing for it.
In other words if your story involves air travel then take your passport. It involves staying in a hotel then take your wash gear and a change of clothes. If necessary buy tickets for planes and trains. Do not leave any room for suspicion.
You may have other ideas for excuses. Please feel free to leave them in the comments section.
My next blog will be in the next day or two and will be on my efforts at stretching with a butt plug with some useful tips.
If you need tranny or sub help or advice email me on trannyagony@live.co.uk or tweet me at @DaniTallulah
3 comments:
Another informative and educational blog, Well written and full of personal experience. I love it xx
There could be some scope for a short post about effective ways to lie. There are good and bad ways to do this, I'll try and get some time to put a post together about it.
There could be some scope for a short post about effective ways to lie. There are good and bad ways to do this, I'll try and get some time to put a post together about it.
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