Monday, 4 March 2013
A Chinese New Year Guide to the Tranny Flat
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Wednesday, 13 February 2013
Living by Scarlett Time
For those of you who have had even the briefest contact with the top London Mistress Scarlett Thorne the title of this particular post will be all too familiar to you. Those of us who serve Her in our daily lives or often at least have virtually given up on concepts like ordinary time zones when we enter Mistress Scarlett Thorne's world.
For the uninitiated allow me to explain. Scarlett Time is meaner in its cruelty than the Greenwich meridian, but far more generous in its understanding of length of concepts such as seconds, minutes and hours. However, for those who like to to live life by their watch it is confusing.
Mistress Scarlett Thorne does not wear a watch Her body clock accurately tells Her when the right time is. This often means that sessions appear to be delayed by an hour or two but then go on far longer than the hour booked. i say 'appear' because when the sessions start is the right time because it is Scarlett Time.
It is a mistake to get frustrated over Scarlett Time and slaves who do get upset about it don't last long, while those who learn to live by Scarlett Time enjoy the privileges which go with serving the most beautiful and powerful Dominatrix in London with all the experience She has acquired in a lifetime of dominating men.
But there is a wider point to this blog after some issues raised by one or two subs with me. Scarlett Time is one of the whims of Mistress Scarlett Thorne, it is a sign of Her control of everything around Her and those who come into contact with Her. If you are serious about serving any Domme in sessions or in lifestyle then learning about Her whims and desires is essential for you to be a successful slave, sub and, especially, maid.
If you have any questions about life as a sub or/ and tranny email me at TrannyAgony@live.co.uk or Tweet me on @DaniTallulah.
Tuesday, 5 February 2013
The truth about forced feminisation
Here's a question for some of you subs out there. When you think of "forced feminisation" do you think of being made to wear something like this?
Utterly hideous, isn't it? i think it is a size 20 bright pink pvc frilly dress. Now i am somebody, as my regular readers know, who spends as much time as i can in a dress etc and frankly i would be completely humiliated wearing something like that.
Now some of my friends may point out that i am not one of those gurls who likes to be a frilly sissy but for me what that dress represents is a false concept of forced feminisation. It plays on the idea that the man should look ridiculous and be totally humiliated when dressed as a woman. It rejects the inner woman within most men and propagates the idea that the sexes don't cross over.
Items like that are produced not to feminise but actually to defeminise to make the so called man feel like less of a woman than he should. It is a cliché stocked by most Dommes in Their dungeons simply to play on what their tribute paying slaves expect not about a true process of subjugation and feminisation.
Now i don't mean to demean those whose fantasy is to wear something like this. i have enjoyed humiliation and i understand the urge to want to be humiliated, but this does not mean it equates to actual feminisation.
There are also some fabulous frilly dresses out there which look so much better than that as worn by my best tranny friend @PrincessTST.
When i fantasised about being feminised before i was lucky enough to meet Mistress Scarlett Thorne it was far more looking something like this that i wanted to look like and wear:
i am sure that some of You will tell me this is just another cliché. They may claim it is the slutty, minimalist version of the hideous frilly monstrosity i showed you earlier. Well it maybe but i would say that it is still a step towards genuine feminisation and an expression of feminine sexuality.
But this is all a distraction. So what then is the truth of forced feminisation?
This is something that i now have a lot of experience in having been "forced" to accept my identity as a woman rather than a man by Scarlett Thorne and watched others follow a similar path at different stages.
What i believe is that all men have the potential to become a woman. After all we all have female physical characteristics, if you doubt that play with your nipples for a moment. To widely different degrees we also are born with a psychological and spiritual woman inside us which with nurturing can become your dominant feature, as it has become with me.
For many in the transsexual community there is no need to force their feminisation. The female identity is so strong and that they are able to embrace it themselves without meeting a Mistress. While my dear friend @maid_felicity is very well known in the BDSM world, he path to becoming a gurl was one which needed know forcing just experimentation.
But for different reasons most men will deny or suppress their female side, even if it is overwhelmingly powerful within them. This was certainly true of me until i went to see Scarlett Thorne almost three years ago. i went to see Mistress Thorne not because i wanted to be a woman but because i wanted to erxperiment in BDSM. As i remember it i had a toilet slave fantasy at the time, which gave me the original name wetslave.
What happened fairly rapidly was a process of forced feminisation, something that Mistress Thorne excells and delights in. i was dressed in that first session and finger f***ed, but from there a long process of replacing what was a man with what is now a woman.
This process involved learning about my female identity, getting new skills such as using make up, changing my body language, getting rid of hair, changing my thought processes and interests, and all sorts of other things. All of this was done through instruction but would never have happened had i not been pushed into it by Scarlett Thorne.
True to say i have adopted some stereotypes. i am a maid for Scarlett Thorne and i work as a whore. However, i have also got to a position where i am happy to go out as a woman and look like a normal woman in the street.
So this i believe is the truth about forced feminisation. It is a skilled process in a Domme/ sub relationship not only about humiliation but about turning what was a man into a woman by developing on the foundations which are naturally there already. It is less about pure humiliation and more about changing your identity and reshaping you. If done properly, as Scarlett Thorne has done with me, it will totally alter you forever.
While i realise most people do not want to or haver the time or opportunity to live the lifestyle i have there is no reason why this cannot be true for forced feminisation in sessions only. If you have had a really good session where you have been dressed and treated like a woman, then you should walk away feeling that you were one for that hour or two.
Anyway here is a picture of me working as a gurl and if you want a session with me do feel free to call 07532425141 or check out my website www.dani-t-girl.co.uk.
And here is a quick snap of me by a friend looking a little more normal trying out a ball gown.
If you have any issues or concerns about being a tranny or sub then email me at trannyagony@live.co.uk or tweet me on @DaniTallulah.
Utterly hideous, isn't it? i think it is a size 20 bright pink pvc frilly dress. Now i am somebody, as my regular readers know, who spends as much time as i can in a dress etc and frankly i would be completely humiliated wearing something like that.
Now some of my friends may point out that i am not one of those gurls who likes to be a frilly sissy but for me what that dress represents is a false concept of forced feminisation. It plays on the idea that the man should look ridiculous and be totally humiliated when dressed as a woman. It rejects the inner woman within most men and propagates the idea that the sexes don't cross over.
Items like that are produced not to feminise but actually to defeminise to make the so called man feel like less of a woman than he should. It is a cliché stocked by most Dommes in Their dungeons simply to play on what their tribute paying slaves expect not about a true process of subjugation and feminisation.
Now i don't mean to demean those whose fantasy is to wear something like this. i have enjoyed humiliation and i understand the urge to want to be humiliated, but this does not mean it equates to actual feminisation.
There are also some fabulous frilly dresses out there which look so much better than that as worn by my best tranny friend @PrincessTST.
When i fantasised about being feminised before i was lucky enough to meet Mistress Scarlett Thorne it was far more looking something like this that i wanted to look like and wear:
But this is all a distraction. So what then is the truth of forced feminisation?
This is something that i now have a lot of experience in having been "forced" to accept my identity as a woman rather than a man by Scarlett Thorne and watched others follow a similar path at different stages.
What i believe is that all men have the potential to become a woman. After all we all have female physical characteristics, if you doubt that play with your nipples for a moment. To widely different degrees we also are born with a psychological and spiritual woman inside us which with nurturing can become your dominant feature, as it has become with me.
For many in the transsexual community there is no need to force their feminisation. The female identity is so strong and that they are able to embrace it themselves without meeting a Mistress. While my dear friend @maid_felicity is very well known in the BDSM world, he path to becoming a gurl was one which needed know forcing just experimentation.
But for different reasons most men will deny or suppress their female side, even if it is overwhelmingly powerful within them. This was certainly true of me until i went to see Scarlett Thorne almost three years ago. i went to see Mistress Thorne not because i wanted to be a woman but because i wanted to erxperiment in BDSM. As i remember it i had a toilet slave fantasy at the time, which gave me the original name wetslave.
What happened fairly rapidly was a process of forced feminisation, something that Mistress Thorne excells and delights in. i was dressed in that first session and finger f***ed, but from there a long process of replacing what was a man with what is now a woman.
This process involved learning about my female identity, getting new skills such as using make up, changing my body language, getting rid of hair, changing my thought processes and interests, and all sorts of other things. All of this was done through instruction but would never have happened had i not been pushed into it by Scarlett Thorne.
True to say i have adopted some stereotypes. i am a maid for Scarlett Thorne and i work as a whore. However, i have also got to a position where i am happy to go out as a woman and look like a normal woman in the street.
So this i believe is the truth about forced feminisation. It is a skilled process in a Domme/ sub relationship not only about humiliation but about turning what was a man into a woman by developing on the foundations which are naturally there already. It is less about pure humiliation and more about changing your identity and reshaping you. If done properly, as Scarlett Thorne has done with me, it will totally alter you forever.
While i realise most people do not want to or haver the time or opportunity to live the lifestyle i have there is no reason why this cannot be true for forced feminisation in sessions only. If you have had a really good session where you have been dressed and treated like a woman, then you should walk away feeling that you were one for that hour or two.
Anyway here is a picture of me working as a gurl and if you want a session with me do feel free to call 07532425141 or check out my website www.dani-t-girl.co.uk.
If you have any issues or concerns about being a tranny or sub then email me at trannyagony@live.co.uk or tweet me on @DaniTallulah.
Monday, 27 August 2012
A tranny beginners guide to make-up in 10 steps
As important as clothes, demeanour, behaviour, hair pieces and shaving or waxing are for me the great moment of transformation is reached when you paint your face with make up. When i have got my face on i feel completed as a girl and ready to face the world, literally, as a proud, confident woman.
But i know from personal experience that for many TV girls starting out make up is a little daunting to say the least. It feels like one of those things you should know what to do but in reality it is a lot more complicated than it seems and very easy to get wrong. And when it goes wrong it looks dreadful and worst of all can really make you look like a clown and a man - yuk!
In fact, just to show that even with a little experience a gurl can get it wrong, only the other day i realised i was using the wrong colour foundation and it was far too dark and orangey for my skin tone. The discovery was a result of me waxing my chest and being able to wear lower cut dresses.
Admittedly, make-up is something i will never stop learning and there are many tricks of the trade i am still finding out so anybody who has discovered any clever things to do please leave a comment below.
But here is a 10-step beginners guide to make-up along with sonme of the top tips i have picked up from the my mentor and Mistress Scarlett Thorne and tranny friends such as @MaidFelicity and @MsEmilyAnarchy:
1. Make sure you have shaved your face properly.
This may sound incredibly obvious but you would be surprised how many gurls simply forget, especially later in the day when the afternoon shadow has appeared. Always worth running a razer over your face before you start.
Top tip: Foundation usually hides stubborn stubble but if it is really dark then put concealer on the spots after you have applied foundation.
2. Clean and moisturise your face
As part of the preparation it is worth washing your face, getting rid of dirt and sweat and also applying moisturiser because make-up can dry out your face.
Top tip: Try E45 moisturiser because it has no scent.
3. Cover your face in foundation
Foundation is exactly what it says, it is the platform on which your transformation is built and the rest of the make-up is put on. When you apply it make sure it is spread evenly across your face, chin and upper neck and blended in carefully leaving no uncovered spots. Do this in clear light and in front of a mirror.
To apply is squeeze it on to the back of your hand then put blobs on your chin, two cheeks, forehead and nose and then spread it.
Top tip: Be careful when you choose foundation. Make sure it is slightly paler than the colour and tone of your skin.
Another top tip: Use a magnifying mirror to double check the results. Keep one handy in your make-up bag.
4. Powder your face
You need to do this to thoroughly across all the foundation, preferably with a pale powder and just enough to hold the foundation in place. It is worth repowdering your face afterwards when you go out at night.
Top tip: You can use a special pad but it is best to do this stage with a powder brush.
5. Apply blusher
This is the point where you start putting colour on your face. Blushers come in all sorts of colours but i prefer tanned or pinky looks. Use a pad to apply blusher and put it in small amount starting on your cheeks and applying it in circular motions.
Top tip: Beware not to put on too much, especially during the day. It can make you look like a clown. If you are going out for the night or whoring then put on a lot more but make sure it blends in properly.
6. Apply eye shadow
Choose a colour which matches what you are wearing. Close your eyes one at a time and make sure your eye lid is not wrinkled. Then apply it carefully and evenly.
Top tip: Like blusher do not over do it during the day to avoid the clown look. A lot of make up works when you are going out or on the pull.
7. Next the eye liner
Make sure the eye liner pencil is sharp. Start on the inside corner of your eye and follow the line of the edge of your lower eye lid which you should be holding down for a clear view.
Top tip: You can get many colours but generally use black liner.
Another top tip: After you have finished with eye liner and eye shadow then it is better to smudge them carefully at the outside corners of your eyes.
8. Put on mascara
It took me time to start using mascara but i wish i had used it earlier. This is the special make-up to make your eye lashes stand out and look more feminine. Again with a steady hand lightly brush your eye lashes. Beware of blobs dropping on to your face or lower eyelid.
Top tip: Don't bother with mascara primer. It is a waste of money and actually weighs down your lids.
9. And finally the lipstick
The main issue with lipstick is to avoid using too much and letting it smudge across your face. Find a colour and tone which fits what you are wearing and the rest of your make-up. Carefully put it on your lips and rub them lightly together. Follow the line of your lips and you can go slightly over but make sure you keep the shape of your mouth. Allow it to dry before drinking.
Top tip: Use lipstick liner of the same colour first to draw the shape and then fill in with the lipstick.
Another top tip: Use a straw when drinking to avoid smudges.
10. Finishing off
Check your face carefully in the mirror and use cotton buds to remove blemishes or smudges.
Top tip: Good make up is generally expensive, but a good place to start with reasonably priced make-up is Collection 2000 in Boots, particularly for foundation.
Another top tip: Carry a small make-up mirror, powder, blusher and make-up in your handbag to replenish your make-up when you go out.
The good news is that make-up lessons (from beginners to advanced) are among the exciting services Scarlett Thorne and i are offering in our special makeover sessions available to would be and already practising gurls from £120 an hour . Just call or text Mistress Scarlett Thorne on 07910476639 or me on 07532425141.
If you have any questions about being a tranny gurl or a sub then contact me at trannyagony@live.co.uk or on Twitter on @DaniTallulah.
Monday, 16 July 2012
The tranny guide to drinking
Scarlett Thorne has very strong opinions about what Her tranny gurls should drink not only when they are out with Her and on show as such, but also in their private lives. While those of us who live double lives, for example, cannot go around in girly clothes and make-up all the time we can change other aspects of our behaviour patterns to help maintain our feminine identity. Focussing on what you drink and how you drink is an easy way to remain feminine in your vanilla world.
Of course, a bit like chastity, there is also an important element of Mistress extending Her control into every aspect of my life which is an important part of a sub identity quite aside from the feminisation process. But Scarlett Thorne's approach is usually also an educational one so She tends to give these instructions to help improve Her slaves, and in the case of trannies make them more feminine and crucially think more like a girl.
Changing your behaviour patterns also changes the way you think and after a period of learning it becomes automatic which means your behaviour patterns are fixed.
Changing your behaviour patterns also changes the way you think and after a period of learning it becomes automatic which means your behaviour patterns are fixed.
Before i get on to what a gurl should or shouldn't drink it's also perhaps worth dealing with some of that nasty masculine behaviour that you often see women also trying to use which for an inspiring gurl is simply unacceptable!
Remember the art of drinking in a bar for a gurl is to look attractive so to begin with here are 10 DOs and DON'Ts:
DO - Act demurely at the bar, get attention by fluttering your eyelids
DON'T - Lean forward at the bar waving cash
DO - Get a man to buy the drinks whenever possible
DON'T - Go and buy drinks for a man
DO - Use nothing bigger than a half pint size glass, preferably a wine or cocktail glass
DON'T - Use pint glasses or tankards or bottle
DO - Sip your drink sweetly or even better use a straw to avoid smudging your lipstick
DON'T - Gulp it down in one or quickly
DO - Allow small favours for the purchase of a drink ie a dance
DON'T - Take any notice of a guy who refuses to buy you a drink
DO - Hold your drink like a girl with your little finger sticking out
DON'T - Grasp your drink like your are creating a fist
DO - Sit up straight with your chest out when drinking
DON'T - Slouch with hunched shoulders
DO - Keep lipstick and cotton buds handy to sort out smudges from drinking
DON'T - Forget these items if you want to remain pretty
DO - Gossip, flirt, have girly chat while having a drink
DON'T - Make loud jokes or discuss football or any other sport
DO - Say: "OH! I like this it's pink and sparkly"
DON'T - Say: "Well this is an excellent wine because it comes from the...." (yawn! male bore)
So now we know how gurls should drink it's time to look at what beverages (including the word beverage) they should avoid. Here are my top 5 inappropriate drinks:
1. Beer - The ultimate man's drink, completely unfeminine and unacceptable except of the light variety such as Corona which comes with fruit. Particualrly AVOID real ales!
2. Whisky - Even worse than beer. Whisky is the male bore's favourite tipple. Those who drink it will numb your mind for hours on different types and peats (YAWN!). Not for a gurl!
3. Red wine - Is very masculine and usually the type of drink chosen by men who think they know something about alcohol.
4. Cider - Is like beer for men who want to get drunk even more quickly. Just generally avoid things that need to be drunk from big glasses or bottles.
5. Rum - This is ok if it is part of a cocktail but in no other circumstances. It is also a vile drink.
But just in case you think i'm ruining all your fun, these five drinks are definitely appropriate for any girl heading for good night out:
1. Vodka and mixer - This is the staple night out drink of any self respecting girl. Preferably vodka and lemonade but coke or maybe red bull will do. It is essentially a soft drink with an alcoholic kick. Light and sparkly and perfect to get you in the mood for dancing or more interesting fun. REMEMBER always have diet or zero sugar lemonade or coke to keep your figure trim.
2. White wine - People who think they know about wine sneer at white wine, which is why it is ideal. Often at tedious functions you only have a choice of red or white wine. You should know nothing about wine but white wine is easy to drink and gives a proper girly image. Rose is ok but ideally when it is sparkly. Pink champagne is a treat.
3. Cocktails - Preferably bought for you by a guy. Ideally it should be creamy or bought for its colour. Never buy it for a funny name let the guy get worked up about blowjobs and sex on the beach...if he buys you enough cocktails he might just get one of those!
4. Gin and tonic - If you really have to look sophisticated then G&T is acceptable.
5. Cum - Well a gurl should always hope to pull and you don't know how the night will end up. But, as a whore, my advice is only swallow if he pays extra.
Those who know me well will be asking: "What about Scarlettpisstini?" Of course, Scarlett Thorne's drink in watersports is the nectar of the Goddess as i'm sure slaves feel is true of their Mistress's champagne too. It's just i'm not sure a Mistress would be too impressed if you asked Her for it if you were lucky enough to be with Her in a bar although i guess if She wanted a companion to the toilet You might get lucky...
By the way anybody with suggestions on appropriate or inappropriate drinks please put them in the comments section below.
Anybody wanting advice on being a tranny or a sub email me on trannyagony@live.co.uk or tweet me on @DaniTallulah.
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